11/10/2009

One can't say Happy Veterans Day, how about Thank you, Vets?

Veterans Day always reminds me that yes, I'm an American. Despite my weariness over blind eyed and hearted fellow citizens, covering everything from disgust over how color of skin or choice of lover/partner/spouse continues to be a bugaboo to a reliance on fast foods and faster energy, there is still something about the country that birthed me that makes me weepy to see old men and women in uniform waving the Stars and Stripes.

Maybe it isn't even love of America. Maybe it is sorrow for a world gone by, when war really meant fighting for our own country and way of life (at least to those actually fighting it - I'm still a cynic about the prompters of war). Then a simpler life by far, when it was endangered it was worth signing up and fighting for. Most of the people signing up now, from what I read, sign up because of huge immediate bonus pay and an alternative to joblessness or jail time. I know I know, that is a generalization, but check out the stats. Hey, I might join up myself if they didn't deem me too old. Probably not, but I've thought about it.

The vagueness of purpose is so obviously a twisted road traveled. From the Civil War, then WW's l and ll, the Korean war, then the *conflict* of Viet Nam and the skirmishes inbetween all of those...to what we are in today. I'm not going to get into the politics here; we all have our own beliefs and that is not what Veterans' Day is about. The reality is that there are vets who are in our current wars, who go back and go back and go back. I sort of comprehend why, but I can't say I *know* - that would be disrespectful at best and an idiotic swept up bundle of misguided empathy at worst. I sometimes am rendered slack jawed by stories of soldiers...

I think of the men who opened the doors to the concentration camps after the Holocaust; coming face to emaciated face with what they were actually fighting to prevent taking over the world. I read an article the other day saying how our President at that time made it the most photographically documented event in war history, because he said that one day there would be people around saying it wasn't true. How far reaching was that?? It's happening now, in Iran, in America, in Europe. A hard slap in the face to every soldier who fought to take down the chains of Hitler's imagination, working to stop one more person not fitting the idea of a 'pure' race from being killed.



So, beyond the honor and respect all veterans deserve (and while this is an American holiday, our allies need to be honored as well, their sons and daughters, husbands and wives are serving and have served and lived and died alongside our own), we all need to stand up, every day, every time you hear a racial slur, every time you hear an ethnic joke, every time you hear freedom slammed to the mat because of someone's ignorance, we need to stand up, speak out and in doing so, respect those serving and those who died serving the ideals of what that red, white and blue is supposed to be all about. Past the Fox vs. Huffpost, GlennBeck vs. Jon Stewart, past health care is good vs. they want to kill our old folk, past all of the foolishness to what America is supposed to be about. Freedom. Freedom. Freedom. Democracy.

I know that sounds naive...and trust me, I am not. But I still remember what it is like to stand on a sidewalk and watch old men and women marching in uniform to a cadence that rang out long before I was ever born playing in their heads...to all of you, old and young, thank you. To the unsung and the known 'heros', thank you. To the ones who didn't come back, thank you.

In Culebra, there is a family that had all six of their sons serve, the Avila family. A rare event for the numbers, but in that time of believing in service, not terribly unusual compared to today. Hopefully they will be honored with their desire to see the stretch of road out to Flamenco named after these six brothers. They served well, and in my eyes and heart, their parents served as well. I can't quite imagine having six sons, and seeing all of them go to war. Bravery of a sort rarely called for these days; these parents had it and lived it. Maybe that is why we can be petty in our issues now a days, without such worthy causes...perhaps.

A poem by a soldier serving in Afghanistan:

Helmand

Night on the cold plain,
invisible sands lift,
peripheral shadows stir,

space between light and dark
shrouding secrets;
old trades draped grey.

Here too poppies fall,
petals blown on broken ground,
seeds scattered on stone

and this bright bloom,
newly cropped,
leaves pale remains,

fresh lines cut;
the old sickle wind
sharp as yesterday.

John Hawkhead
2009

To all of the veterans, and all of the fathers and mothers, sisters and brothers, husbands and wives, sons and daughters who serve every day a loved one is gone, thank you.

Some Bliss

A happily awaited event arrives and a new beach girl is on the scene! Bliss Amore Carrero Bohm came over with Papa and Mama for nephew Kai's 2nd birthday party this weekend. I was Bliss blessed enough to stumble into them at Mamacita's where I went to get out of the rain. Congratulations, Krista and Milton. And welcome, Bliss!! She is one month old here. Come back soon!
Papa is way in love with his girls...
it would be almost gooey if Milton wasn't so funny.

I think he likes her

Papa, Amah, Krista, Bliss
Tia MJ is Blissin'

11/08/2009

Chef's for Charity - a huge success

Unfortunately, Chef's for Charity was so successful, some people were turned away as the space was filled to capacity, and probably beyond. When I left, there were cars parked as far as Seabourne and people lined up through the parking lot to get in!

For those of us lucky enough to be there (and even better, to be there early), it was an incredible event.The tables were beautiful, the booths all looked great. The chefs and their crews obviously worked very hard to turn out some fabulous taste treats, but had smiles for everyone. Neil's Mexican theme was great, outfits, vases full of a beautiful variety of hot peppers and a feast of choices. That chili would give Zach a serious run for his money! And we got to eat sushi! And ribs and island mash and pizza and...oh my...

...which reminds me of the most remarkable part of the night, well, to me anyway...that I wore a white top and spilled nothing on it. No red wine. No drippy drops. No leaping blops. I'm declaring it a miracle and perhaps a first in my life. No photos, sorry, you'll just have to believe me

Did I have a favorite booth and offering? Sure, until I tried something else...there was a kaleidoscope of flavors, a dizzying merry-go-round of choices. All in all, it was a fantastic night. Marsha manned the ticket table like a trooper and I'm sorry I didn't get a shot of her there.

Enjoy! Better yet, next year, be here and enjoy it for real if you weren't here this time.


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11/07/2009

An interlude before the main event

I got an update from my wandering sailor friend, so just to assuage a few armchair travelers, here is the latest. Then I will post the Chefs for Charity event, which I just got home from...it went far, way far, beyond expectations. A hugely wonderful time was had (and is still being had!) by all. And, up until I left, no one fell in the pool. Which seemed highly possible.

From Chuck, back in Fiji.

Cyclones, Everyone Loves a Haul Out and the Cruisers Midnight

Greetings Crew! All hands on deck! Avast ye matey’s! ARRGH! (I see that got your attention!)

It seems like the internet is working here in the marina again. For how long I just don’t know so I will try to get this latest crew letter out ASAP…

Cyclone season here in this part of the South Pacific extends from November until March or April. Fiji has been spared any major damage in recent history but the fact remains that it lies right smack dab in the middle of cyclonic activity. One mustn’t forget that… Remember St. Thomas in the USVI… Until 1989 they had no direct hurricane hits since like 1930. People became lackadaisical about it. Then came the devastation of Hugo and the Virgin Islands, particularly St. Thomas, was rendered a mess. In neighboring Culebra, a place considered to be a safe hurricane anchorage, 197 boats were lost. Of course we know that Hugo went on to lay waste to the East Coast of the US as well. Between 1989 and 2000 (correct me if I’m wrong) there were 3 direct hits including Marilyn in 1995. Marilyn is the storm that put the Deev on the bottom of the Caribbean Sea and led to my purchasing her from my pal Tim Peck who had built her and still owned her. I bought her a week after the storm in a “as is, where is” condition. Hell, I’m still not finished rebuilding her but I’ll be darned if that will stop me from sailing the old girl! (As a side note, I lost two friends in Hurricane Marilyn. One we found washed up in the mangroves 3 days later and the other body was never recovered.)


Why am I sticking around here during Cyclone Season? I don’t know exactly but you know sometimes sailing or just hanging out in the Caribbean during Hurricane Season can be the best time of year. The weather is generally nicer, there are far fewer cruising boats and almost no bareboats are active. Folks around here tell me the same thing. Furthermore, the season doesn’t get really active until later in December and January. When I get the Deev back in the water (Tuesday) I’m planning on some sailing here in Fijian waters for a few weeks before heading back to the Marshall Islands. The Marshalls are north of the equator and so out of the cyclone belt.

As you know, I spent the heart of the Caribbean Hurricane Season in the BVI’s with my friends on Jost Van Dyke. I’ve also been known to spend winters in Maine! (In February in Maine you can actually drive on Route 1 in less than bumper to bumper traffic and it is possible to get a seat at most restaurants without a reservation.)


So I’ll stick around here in Fiji for at least another month or so…. Please send out some good vibes to help keep the mean and nasties away!


I always say that everyone loves a haul out because it is so far from the truth. Haul outs suck. There is way too much work to do and it is way too expensive (B.O.A.T. stands for Bust Out Another Thousand.) This haul out is going rather well, though, despite the fact that I am hemorrhaging cash at an astounding rate. Vuda Point Marina and Boatyard is the nicest place I’ve ever hauled. The facilities are clean, all sorts of marine services are available and the rates are considerably better than stateside prices. But haul outs still suck.


I allotted myself plenty of time to get things done so I managed to get to some horrible jobs that I’ve neglected for far too long. For example I have removed and am refurbishing my anchor windlass. That little project required very large hammers, large pieces of pipe, a propane torch, hardwood wedges and every curse word that I could think of in several different languages! I recall that after 35 or more years of living onboard with his lovely wife, Carolyn, my pal Capt. Fatty Goodlander (read his stuff in Cruising World and other publications) finally broke down and bought his wife an anchor windlass for a “present”. All those years he had her hauling up that groundtackle by hand she was developing some serious muscles and I’m sure he finally was threatened with a severe beating if he didn’t break lose of some cash and by that wench a winch! But Fatty, let me advise you to service that winch on a regular basis or it will freeze up on you for sure. And you don’t want that to happen!


It’s getting late in the evening now and I’m going to try to send this off. By “late in the evening” I mean that it is well after dark, like about 8:15 PM. That’s getting late for me. I’m usually hunkered down with my book or fast asleep by 9:00 PM. 9:00 PM is considered Cruisers Midnight. We all know that.


Cheers and Carry On!


Chuck


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So, in a land and sea far away Chuck carries on his haul out and exploration. We can do the same in our own backyards. It's all here, as well as all there. Life is good. Chefs for Charity post tomorrow!



Round up and reminder

The reminder first. Tonight is the Chefs for Charity dinner at Bahia Marina, so don't forget as you wander through your Saturday. 7:30, 20 bucks, a good time. Be there!

Here are a few photographs that didn't fit in here or there during the week. It's been a slow week in Paradox, but tonight's event should pull it all together well. I don't know what everyone is cooking, but I know it is going to be all sorts of delicious!

The white orchid is blooming

An especially high tide...I was looking for stepping stones!

I love this blossom - it won't be around for months and then...surprise!

p.s. For those of you who follow the blog through reminders that haven't been updating, sorry!! I'm not sure what the fix is, but I'd suggest re-doing your sign up and see if that works. Please let me know! Thanks.